One slip and everything is gone...
One slip and everything is gone... I wonder how often that happens to us during our life.
One wrong answer and you are kicked out of exam, one wrong word and you hurt your friend, one missunderstanding and you destroy a relationship.
Sometimes everything seems so black and white and the longer I live the more I like gray. Everything should not be either this or that. I think there should always be a chance to improve/correct what one did wrong. If the one who slipped is willing to admit a mistake, I believe he should always get a chance.
I think it is hard enough to come front and admit "I did that wrong" and I think the other person should not make him/her suffer for that. I would never want to see my enemy humiliated, how can I want to cause humiliation to person I respect, love. None of us are perfect and we should not only search for mistakes in other people, as every conflict, in my opinion, has base in the behaviour of both of us.
Life is short and there should not be a space for missunderstandings... you do not get something now? Go and ask. Make things clear, make sure you know where you stand... as that is the only state of mind that you can go further from. One should not be confused and feel hurt.
I can get mad, I really do... but I get also very soon sorry for that and I wish I could take it back... but it is too late... and that is why we need to understand each other and forgive one another. As that is what counts. I prefer to love people to hate them. I prefer to treat people with dignity and I always hoped to be treated back the same way.
Bit unusual post but I am tired and so the thoughts might have gotten bit confused.
One wrong answer and you are kicked out of exam, one wrong word and you hurt your friend, one missunderstanding and you destroy a relationship.
Sometimes everything seems so black and white and the longer I live the more I like gray. Everything should not be either this or that. I think there should always be a chance to improve/correct what one did wrong. If the one who slipped is willing to admit a mistake, I believe he should always get a chance.
I think it is hard enough to come front and admit "I did that wrong" and I think the other person should not make him/her suffer for that. I would never want to see my enemy humiliated, how can I want to cause humiliation to person I respect, love. None of us are perfect and we should not only search for mistakes in other people, as every conflict, in my opinion, has base in the behaviour of both of us.
Life is short and there should not be a space for missunderstandings... you do not get something now? Go and ask. Make things clear, make sure you know where you stand... as that is the only state of mind that you can go further from. One should not be confused and feel hurt.
I can get mad, I really do... but I get also very soon sorry for that and I wish I could take it back... but it is too late... and that is why we need to understand each other and forgive one another. As that is what counts. I prefer to love people to hate them. I prefer to treat people with dignity and I always hoped to be treated back the same way.
Bit unusual post but I am tired and so the thoughts might have gotten bit confused.
Labels: Outbursts :o)
posted by Mart'a at 11:44 PM
1 Comments:
I think you are alright. Hate people is not the solution for our problems. When someone is humiliated for other(s) revange is not sweet as the phrase says. If one wants to win the other person for himself love, understanding, pardon and affection are the answers.
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